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So I believe they then self sabotage the relationship subconctiously and that sometimes cheating is just the vehicle and not the aim or destination some of the time. Because for someone like that the more they care for, depend and love a person the more they know it will hurt when it ends. And it ending is to them a known certainty with only the date it will happen being unclear.

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Getting a person to step back from that brink is extremely difficult and their mindset and actions can tend to kill a relationship as effectively as an actual infidelity willl.

I have also known someone say they did cheat just to try and move past the accusations too, but that just ended on the spot and they said even that felt like a relief. So yeah, complex topic, and one so many people remain too raw to ever be able to discuss it in a calm and adult manner. This was a good read! Having been cheated on in a long term marriage, and still loving my partner, How to find hooker at Escanaba being afraid to leave the comfort of a home with 3 small children, the only option was to try and forgive and move on in the Seeking exciting affair.

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