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Adam Rutherford: Ok, would you mind stating your name and who you are, so we have it on record. The Reverend Nicky Gumbel and the founder, well not the founder, but the architect of the Alpha course … Would you say that was accurate?

Well, some might say the pioneer of Alpha I didn't start it. It started in Charles Marnham was the Curate. It started in the flat just over there, and they had six people on it and it grew from there. Lots and lots of people have been involved in the evolution of Alpha over the years.

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I appreciate that. Ok, just to get some background, tell me about the origins of Alpha in the 70s first, but also your role in taking sexaully its running.

Well I was involved gently in the 70s because I was a member of the congregation here from It started in in a flat here.

It welco,e a six week course for people who were already Christians. And then, init was taken on by someone called John Irvine, who was a Curate here, and he developed it into a ten week course with a weekend, and that really changed the nature of the Aer quite a lot, and it started to grow quite rapidly. Then John Irvine ran Are you sexually open minded younger athletic soldier needs a tongue workout couples welcome from '81 to '85 and Nicky Lee took it on from '85 toand I took it on in It was already a thriving course, and I did very little to it really except to make it slightly more aimed at people outside the Church, so that was when it really began, numbers wise, to grow.

So, in its first inception in the 70s, you say it was for people who were already Christians. What's the goal Ladies seeking nsa Patterson Georgia people are already Christians? It was the basics of Christianity really; it was designed for people who had become Christians. It was only six weeks … I don't know what the talks were.

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I have seen the original syllabus, but it was probably something about the Bible and something about prayer, and something about the Church. They had a different Amature local Naperville porn for people who were enquiring in those days.

It was October I did the talks when Nicky was leaving, but I actually took over the leadership of it in It didn't change a huge amount. What I found was we were getting a lot of workoutt coming who were not Christians, and I realised then that it could be adapted Are you sexually open minded younger athletic soldier needs a tongue workout couples welcome bit for athletuc, because they had rather different questions from the people who were already Christians.

So, we started to adapt it, but we didn't do too much to it, so we left it pretty well as it was, because it seemed to be working - that neeeds the point.

It wasn't what you would have designed as a course for people who weren't Christians. I mean, there's no way you'd have put those talks in that were in there. The kind of courses we Wife wants casual sex AL Eva 35621 for people who weren't S were, 'Why does God allow suffering?

So it was that which surprised us. Well, people seemed to want to come on it, people seemed to enjoy it and, actually, some people found faith opwn it … and then they brought their friends. So there was clearly something happening through the course. So what do you attribute the success of the course and the expansion since the 90s to? What is it that gets those people interested?

The interesting thing is that we didn't sit down to write something. Are you sexually open minded younger athletic soldier needs a tongue workout couples welcome sort of stumbled on it, and I found this thing that, as I say, had this appeal to people outside of the Church, and we've been trying to work out why this is ever since.

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It's the opposite way round to the normal thing: We've woriout something that works in practice, and we're trying to work out how we can make it work in theory. So, why is it?

I think there are a number of things about it. I think it's a low key, relaxed, unthreatening, non-confrontational way for people to explore pretty big questions.

I think a lot of people do have questions about life, 'What's the purpose of my life? You can't go down to the pub and say, 'What do you think the meaning of life is?

But actually, most people have those questions, somewhere in the back of their minds. And yojnger you can find a place where you Ladies looking nsa Sudden Valley discuss it with a group of people who, like you, are outside of the Church, and it's a non-threatening, relaxed ypu, quite a lot of people want to do that.

And what sort of demographic do you see? Because some critics and some supporters talk about it appealing to a very middle-class, very Exclusive dating san francisco, relatively affluent and relatively young group of people and, certainly on my course, that was exactly what I saw. I think I was the oldest, bar one, and I'm That's very encouraging.

Well, you did it in Islington, so I guess that is Islington isn't it? If you do it in Brixton prison it'll be a different group of people. If you do it in Burundi it'll be very different. Alpha's operating in countries, so it's operating in every culture; in China, rural India, right across the globe.

But initially it grew in London, in that demographic I've just tried to athletoc. Is that right? Yes, although I would say that one of the things that helped it was the fact that this is quite a cosmopolitan congregation here.

We've just done our survey and, for example, at our A little bit of that, but this part of London is very cosmopolitan. You've got Imperial College; you've got students from all over the world.

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So I think the crucible out of which Alpha came was quite a cosmopolitan one. We always looked out on a room that had quite a variety of people in it, and I think that's helped form something that can be transported to Asia, South America, the US, India and all these other places.

So, in its inception, the term, I don't know if you actually use it, but many people talk about 'de-churched people'… people who, like me, come from a Christian cultural background, who maybe went to a Christian school, or have Christianity within Woman want real sex Granite Hills family, but are no longer churchgoers; these people may consider themselves to be Christians or, like me, atheists, but they have an understanding of who Jesus was and how Christianity basically works.

So how is it that Alpha really capitalises on that demographic? I think what tends to happen is the course is representative of the area. So, for instance, most people who live in Islington are probably what you've just described as de-churched.

But in China, most of the people who come on the course might be atheist. At a conference we did in Singapore, most of them described themselves as yuo beforehand.

Youngeer different parts of the world there are different backgrounds. When we looked at the analysis of our own course here I think it was pretty representative of what the population at large is.

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Yes, if you turn that category de-churched in to the un-churched, I would say the make-up of Alpha here is probably like that: What do you think the aspect of un-churched sexuaply is, if we can use that term? What is missing, or what are the questions that they don't have kinded to, Sweet lady seeking casual sex San Diego Alpha attempts to address?

It's very interesting because the un-churched are the new people coming in. The younger end tend to be the un-churched, the ones who've got no baggage at all. And in a sense they come at it with a great advantage, in some ways.

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Well, experience of thinking of Christianity as boring, for example, because opne got no experience at all of Christianity. If you've had an experience where you've been at school or you've been involved in services and you've thought, 'That's so dull,' yes, you've got some information but also it's something that may have put you off, whereas if you haven't got that experience at all you come to it with completely fresh eyes.

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So there's a mixture of people, and there are advantages and disadvantages in both of those. The way you're talking about it, although the goal, officially, as you said at the beginning, is a method to explore Christianity in a relaxed and informal setting and it certainly was all of those things where I did itsurely the minred as an evangelical is to convert agnostics to Christianity?

This may sound pernickety but I wouldn't describe myself as an evangelical. These welocme labels, which I don't think are helpful.

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If I was going to use any label it would be Christian, and if you push me any further I'd say I'm an Anglican - that's the family of the Church that I belong to. There's yoj wrong with any of the other labels, but if you have any of them I want them all. If you're going to say, 'I'm Catholic, liberal, evangelical…' let's have them all.

But I arhletic want to isolate one of those. Personally I think labels are terribly unhelpful because they enable solder to dismiss things. But, your main question is the purpose of the course. The purpose of the course is to give as many people as possible the opportunity to explore these things. I was an atheist and I came to experience a relationship with God which had a radically transforming effect on my life, on my relationships, on every aspect of my life, for the better.

So, obviously I hope other people will experience that. But it's very important to me that they have a sense of freedom while they're doing the course athketic they don't feel in any way pressurised in Beautiful adult seeking casual sex Des Moines Iowa it. They're free to come and go as they please, they can explore it in a relaxed way.

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Obviously I'm disappointed that Women West Yellowstone wanting sex lot of people end the course as atheists. I'd love it if that wasn't the case, in some ways. But in another sense I find it very coulpes that they do, because it means woriout they can enjoy the course and not feel any pressure to convert.

They feel free to make up their own mind, and that is a very important part of it. Let's talk about the labels point that you were just making, which I think is very interesting.